Moms Just Like You Share Dreams Come True

By Hearing First Team May 12, 2017

Celebrate LSL | LSL story, Parent Outcomes

Moms from our Family Support Community shared their initials fears for what they thought their children with hearing loss would never be able to do and the turning point moments when they realized that their dreams would come true. Join us in celebrating these stories and find inspiration to make your baby’s dreams a reality.


Happy Mother’s Day! As the mom to a child with hearing loss on the LSL journey, you’re no stranger to the ups and downs of the journey toward listening and speaking. However, because of your support, your child can learn to listen and talk like their hearing friends, putting them on a path to all sorts of future success! Today we want to recognize all the mothers who have done what it takes to make LSL dreams come true for their children.

The news that your child is deaf or hard of hearing can be devastating. Although every mother reacts differently, common responses to grief include sadness, guilt, isolation, anger and fear of a loss of dreams that may go unfulfilled. Amidst these feelings, you might question your vision for a ‘normal’ life for your child that includes hearing your voice, listening to music, attending mainstreamed school, participating in sports, going to college, having healthy social relationships, the list goes on and on.

We asked moms in the Hearing First Family Support Community to share what they worried their children would never be able to do and what marked the turning point when they realized their children’s dreams could come true. Here’s what we heard:

Ali

My fear: Honestly in the early days, I was worried my daughter would never hear me say or be able to say "I love you."

My turning point: The turning point was when we found our oral program in Phoenix and Kenz received her first CI. We were sitting in a parent session looking at various winter things. The therapist pulled out a snowman and Kenzie immediately said "moman" repeatedly. We had only looked at the snowman the previous week and being in Arizona we weren't around snowmen, so I knew that she had picked it up and stored that word. That's when I knew everything was going to be OK.

Tina

My fear: Wondering, ‘Can my child play sports with a hearing loss?’

My turning point: Being bound and determined that, with a bunch of hard work and dedication to listening and spoken language therapy, our son could do anything his hearing peers could do, including sports. I remember being on the early side of the diagnosis and wondering what his future will look like, and here I sit with my 15-year-old son, anxiously awaiting the beginning of high school baseball season. Anything is possible for our kids with hearing loss!

Sarah

My fear: One of the reasons we chose the name Isaac for our son was because it means laughter. I remember holding him at night with tears streaming down my cheeks thinking he would never know what laughter sounds like.

My turning point: Realizing he could learn and love to laugh. Not only does he know what it sounds like, that boy LOVES to laugh, and it's music to BOTH his ears and mine!

Heather

My fear: My sign language knowledge is minimal and I was afraid that I would need to learn how to sign to communicate with her. I recall the day after finding out about my daughter's hearing loss, picking her up from her crib, looking out the window and pointing to a bird in a tree and signing "bird" to my little girl. I remember thinking, how could I learn and teach a new language at the same time? She was my youngest of 4 children, so I wondered how I was going to handle raising 3 hearing kids and 1 deaf child. I was terrified.

My turning point: The turning point was realizing that with proper amplification and therapy, my daughter could learn to listen and use spoken language. I studied the importance of neuroplasticity and how critical the time was now to teach her listening and spoken language. I built a network of other parents with children who have hearing loss and use spoken language. With time, hard work, and sacrifice, Sophia has blossomed. She wants to use spoken language, she wants to play with her siblings and neighbor kids, and she wants to listen to me reading her books.

Marge

My fear: I remember thinking my sons would never be able to fully hear music or play an instrument.

My turning point: When Forest asked if he could play the fiddle. We signed him up for lessons and he became obsessed with “Irish Washerwoman” and could play it perfectly! I knew then, anything was possible for him.

Lydia

My fear: When Rose was first diagnosed, I was so worried she wouldn't hear all the sounds of the natural world-- the birds, the ocean, the rain, the wind, etc. It broke my heart! We go to the beach every summer, and, initially, I assumed that her hearing aids would hinder her experience.

My turning point: My turning point was when Rose learned how to point to her ear to tell me she heard something. What a relief for us! Now when we go to the beach, on walks or when the rain pours on our metal roof, she points and says, "I hear it (the specific sound)." There is nothing better!! I know she’s hearing the sounds of the natural world and I am so grateful! And at the beach, she runs around with her cousins, splashes in the water, and rolls in the sand and it is awesome!

Erica

My fear: I worried Windsor wouldn't sing.

My turning point: She started singing spontaneously around 2 years old and now at 2½ she's already making up her own songs!

A Mom’s Dreams Can Be Made Real

As you may know, this Better Hearing & Speech Month we’re celebrating how early diagnosis and hearing technology can open the door to dreams and endless LSL possibilities for children who are born deaf or hard of hearing. However, one of our biggest celebrations this month is for the moms who have done what it takes for their children on the LSL journey, doing everyday tasks such as:

  • Driving to audiology appointments
  • Maintaining hearing technology
  • Partnering with EI and LSL professionals
  • Integrating LSL into every waking moment
  • Facilitating seamless transitions
  • Keeping hearing technology on during all awake hours
  • Holding high expectations
  • Navigating challenges
  • Celebrating winning moments

Thank you to all moms who are making the dreams of children with hearing loss real! Happy Mother’s Day!

Celebrate LSL | LSL story, Parent Outcomes

About the Author

Hearing First Team At Hearing First, we want all children to benefit from the availability of newborn hearing screening, the advances in technology, and the early learning services in their communities. We want all children to have the opportunity to take advantage of access to sound – a critical building block for future success.

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